PROVIDENCE

comparisons are easily done once you've had a taste of perfection

December 11, 2012 10:15 pm

往前走

因為你不想去觸碰它所以它就慢慢的淡掉了 可是其實它還是非常深刻 妳只是不去觸碰它而己 但我覺得這樣是好事 就是人就是要往前走 你不用停留在一個原地 然後讓自己在那個痛苦裡面 然後你反而讓那一個東西成為是妳很大的力量 而且昰一個很棒的養分 㚷就是讓它在妳的生命裡面 它存在的 但是妳不要去觸碰它可是妳知道這件事情 因為這件事情妳一直往前走 一直很堅強的往前走


不去觸碰不代表忘了只是选择存在心里

Love you always AmyFay Lin

November 12, 2012 12:34 pm

Desiderata

Go placidly amid the noise and haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others,
even the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons,
they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.

Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs;
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals;
and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment
it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.

You are a child of the universe,
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful.
Strive to be happy.

October 30, 2012 5:41 pm
"The most authentic thing about us is our capacity to create, to overcome, to endure, to transform, to love and to be greater than our suffering"

Criminal Minds, Ben Okri
2:45 pm
"Who you are is not where you’ve been. You’re still an innocent."
June 26, 2012 9:19 pm June 24, 2012 8:08 pm June 23, 2012 6:27 pm
vanityfair:

The Fan Bingbing Sensation
Photograph by Frédéric Lagrange

vanityfair:

The Fan Bingbing Sensation

Photograph by Frédéric Lagrange

June 18, 2012 11:21 pm June 13, 2012 10:47 pm
"I am still every age that I have been. Because I was once a child, I am always a child. Because I was once a searching adolescent, given to moods and ecstasies, these are still part of me, and always will be… This does not mean that I ought to be trapped or enclosed in any of these ages…the delayed adolescent, the childish adult, but that they are in me to be drawn on; to forget is a form of suicide… Far too many people misunderstand what “putting away childish things” means, and think that forgetting what it is like to think and feel and touch and smell and taste and see and hear like a three-year-old or a thirteen-year-old or a twenty-three-year-old means being grownup."

Madeleine L’Engle (via psychotherapy)
10:46 pm
"The primary goal of parenting, beyond keeping our children safe and loved, is to convey to them a sense that it is possible to be happy in an uncertain world, to give them hope. We do this, of course, by example more than by anything we say to them. If we can demonstrate in our own lives qualities of commitment, determination, and optimism, then we have done our job and can use our books of child-rearing advice for doorstops or fireplace fuel. What we cannot do is expect that children who are constantly criticized, bullied, and lectured will think well of themselves and their futures."

Gordon Livingston

(via sometimesagreatnotion)

(via psychotherapy)